The Art of losing Control is a series of six discussion workshops run as part of The Sharing Submissive initiative.   This series of workshops is designed to guide both young and old, new and experienced submissives, slaves or bottoms through the various elements of submission.   Sometimes it’s difficult to navigate our way through life especially when new to the scene. It’s important to realise that you are not alone and that by sharing one’s thoughts and fears can often open our eyes to new possibilities.   Attend this series of workshops and learn how to lose control with the confidence of understanding what desires and needs may drive us.   The following topics will be covered:  

1. What is Control?

2. Surrender

3. Service

4. Barriers to losing Control

5. Losing control in action

6. Development and Coping Strategies

  Language: English Running time: 6 week Each Workshop: 3 hours Each occasion is limited to: 15 participants Tea, Coffee and cake/biscuits served during a break This event doesn't require a membership in BDSMkastellet, it is open to everyone   As a service oriented slave, slave scarlett will lead you through the six week course sharing her lifetimes experience of service both from the vanilla world and from within the scene.   Her attitude and motivation towards submission has been influenced both through a career in public service, together with being raised in a religious household. With an inherent desire to always put others first, she is well placed to offer support and guidance to those dealing with the all too familiar struggles of losing control.